Wedding Speech – how to give a speech to remember!

Giving a speech at a wedding? Here’s some tips for you!

The best thing to do is try not to be worried. Think positively.
Your speech will be a huge success and you will wonder why you were so
concerned!
This is a busy time, but any chance you get, practice, until you are so
familiar with your speech, you know what’s coming next. The more you
practice, the less nervous you will be!
Practice the pauses, places where emphasis is required etc.
By showing you’ve put even a little thought and effort into what you’re
saying, all manner of sins will be forgiven!
On the day, don’t over indulge! Although it’s tempting to down a few scoops
while waiting to speak, don’t! Being tipsy could affect your delivery by
making you slur your words and could cause you to be unsteady on your
feet!
Remember! The audience is on your side! You’ll be able to use their
goodwill to boost your confidence.
It’s a good idea to memorise the first paragraph of your speech and it’s
perfectly acceptable to read the rest from a script. This will give you
confidence and will ensure that nothing is left out.
If there is a microphone provided, make sure beforehand, that you know how
to use it and that it is working.
Before you begin, take several deep breaths.
Remember to pause in your speech to emphasise a point or to make room for
a reaction to a joke or story.

Written by Aine

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